Jedi and Sexual Orientation

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09 Mar 2013 16:36 #97165 by
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That is something I wouldn't know what to do in tow it happened. However I believe if you're going to start a relationship with somebody and you are transgender that you should tell the person you plan to be with and see the reaction, if they don't think it's going to happen it's not going to happen but if they're okay with it then obviously it will happen.

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09 Mar 2013 16:37 #97166 by
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Red Lila wrote:

Tonyib369 wrote: i have to say i can usually tell if someone was born male... the energy is usually different at least for me it is


I don't know how much I can take stock in this, no personal attack meant. From the 60 or so people in my life I've met claiming sensitivity to auras or energy around a person. This sort of difference was only ever brought up amongst people who already knew the person they were talking about was trans and in a few cases they said the opposite about me, "that I had no such 'different energy'" up until I reveal I'm trans and then they suddenly 'noticed' it.

Granted, I think aura reading is just a passive observation process wherein people take in all the information and form an intuitive sense of a person rather than using literal abductive reasoning but the results are largely the same, equally as relavent, and just as seated in personal opinion and bias.




i cant prove to you i can do this.... all i can say is its like when you get a gut feeling and that is something all people have

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09 Mar 2013 16:38 #97167 by
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I have a question and please forgive my ignorance.

Do trans woman want to have a commited relationship with heterosexual men?

If yes why wouldn't I think or would it be wrong to think it's just a gay guy who just got his equipment refitted and some hormone therapy?

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09 Mar 2013 16:50 #97170 by
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Being transgender has nothing to do with sexuality actually, this discussion is actually a bit tangent to the original topic. I mentioned before I'm transgender but I'm a lesbian so I'm attracted to other women, but at birth the doctor assigned me male. Being trans happens when the parts of the brain, which are spread throughout, which determine how we perceive our own gender are so different from what the body turns out as that it creates a dysphoria over the incongruence. These formative periods occur very early in pregnancy, usually within the first to third week. The AMA is actually discussing listing it amongst the other intersex conditions.

Being transgender as an experience is something akin in sensation to being born without a hand but your nervous system contains that hand in its map, so you have the sensation that says, "there's a hand there" or at least "there should be a hand there" but when you look down there's nothing. Except in the case of transgender people this applies to most of our bodies. The problem we deal with most is that instead of the person who doesn't have a hand who receives sympathy and help from society as a whole and the problem is acknowledged, we get told its all in our head, that we're abominations, that we're deceitful, and that we're just really really gay.

That all said, some transgender people, men or women, are straight, attracted to women or men respectively. Others are gay or bisexual or pansexual. The instance of homosexuality in the transgender population is more or less equal to that in the larger population. There is a slightly increased instance of bisexuality but that higher instance is likely due to the "nurture" side of development than anything.

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09 Mar 2013 17:23 #97173 by
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interesting...i often call myself a lesbian in a male body

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09 Mar 2013 17:38 #97174 by
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Tonyib369 wrote: interesting...i often call myself a lesbian in a male body


I know of several men who say that as a joke, most trans women I know don't say it or only say it rarely as its a bit too raw of a thing and also not particularly true. I was a lesbian in a woman's body. I just got the wrong growth hormones in the womb.

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09 Mar 2013 17:46 - 09 Mar 2013 17:47 #97175 by
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i understand... this is why i don't like labels although they are needed in various degrees... to sum up my sexuality i would say... im attracted to what im attracted to... what that is i don't know till i experience it
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09 Mar 2013 18:42 - 09 Mar 2013 18:47 #97179 by
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Well, all I know is I'm a man. A manuh, manuh, MAN! ALABAMA MAN

(Context: warning; from a South Park ep, may be offensive)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BrimMyOoEDA
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10 Mar 2013 20:30 #97267 by
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hi guys just had a run in with my landlord. Hes a born again christian and thinks the homosexuals are the products of the devil and need to cast out their devil. I tried explaining the mythology of the bible and that we are all of one energy so if your beliefe is your bliss then go for it but you havent opened you spriri or your heart so how can you say that thats true when you havent braced the truth of life. This to me is part of what happens when you take everything in a book litrelly and dont think or feel. Theres no compassion just a theology of litralism and no bliss or heart only hate.

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10 Mar 2013 20:52 #97270 by
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flip wrote: Hes [landlord] a born again christian and thinks the homosexuals are the products of the devil and need to cast out their devil... ...This to me is part of what happens when you take everything in a book litrelly and dont think or feel. Theres no compassion just a theology of litralism and no bliss or heart only hate.


He doesn't take the bible literally, he just uses it to justify his prejudice.

Ezekiel 7:2 wrote: "Also, thou son of man, thus saith the Lord GOD unto the land of Israel; An end, the end is come upon the four corners of the land."

Isiah 11:12 wrote: "And he shall set up an ensign for the nations, and shall assemble the outcasts of Israel, and gather together the dispersed of Judah from the four corners of the earth."


Ask him where the Earth's corners are.

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