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8 years 6 months ago #205118 by

SeventhSL wrote:

Br. John wrote: The decision to terminate a pregnancy should be solely between the pregnant woman, her conscience and her doctor.


So zero choice = zero child support?


Non sequitur. You can't equate the inverse because it's a false equivalency.

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8 years 6 months ago - 8 years 6 months ago #205119 by ren
Choosing to be a father and choosing to be a mother are false equivalences?

This sounds like it could be oppressive to women. The patriarchy must've done it.

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8 years 6 months ago #205122 by

Jamie Stick wrote:

SeventhSL wrote:

Br. John wrote: The decision to terminate a pregnancy should be solely between the pregnant woman, her conscience and her doctor.


So zero choice = zero child support?


Non sequitur. You can't equate the inverse because it's a false equivalency.


Dude I've only read two threads where you're involved at all, and like 75 of your posts that I've read start with "non sequitur."

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8 years 6 months ago - 8 years 6 months ago #205124 by

Star Forge wrote:

Jamie Stick wrote:

SeventhSL wrote:

Br. John wrote: The decision to terminate a pregnancy should be solely between the pregnant woman, her conscience and her doctor.


So zero choice = zero child support?


Non sequitur. You can't equate the inverse because it's a false equivalency.


[strike]Dude[/strike] I've only read two threads where you're involved at all, and like 75 of your posts that I've read start with "non sequitur."


Hmm... Maybe that should indicate to you there's a flaw in the popular reasoning...

P.S. Hyperbole doesn't suit you.
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8 years 6 months ago #205126 by

ren wrote: Choosing to be a father and choosing to be a mother are false equivalences?


I don't know about parental roles, but choosing to carry and nurture a fetus to full human development is certainly not the same as being a genetic contributor at conception.

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8 years 6 months ago - 8 years 6 months ago #205128 by Adder

Akkarin wrote: We need to be careful about a great deal of over-generalisations with this topic and what "feminism" means.

Adder wrote: It is only the legal domain of equality and equal rights which is real feminism, as its its purpose/intent/action.


"Real" feminism?

There isn't feminism, there are only feminisms.

Adder what you talked about is Liberal Feminism.

But consider:
Radical Libertarian Feminists focus on issues of choice, how biological and social roles constrain women.
Radical Cultural Feminists see reproduction not as a limit of choice but as an expression of female liberation and empowerment.
Post Modern Feminists seek to deconstruct ideas of gender identities/roles, making the genders mostly androgynous.
Marxist/Socialist Feminists focus on concepts of exploitation and coercion, should women who stay at home to raise children receive a wage?
Psychoanalytic Feminists argue about how sexism is reinforced at an early age through gendered parenting.

Feminism is not one monolithic school of thought.


My use of the world real is just in regards to what feminism was created for and what it considers its victories, which is the struggle to and maintenance of the legal equality/recognition. Sub-divisions of feminism exist, in an infinite number of how many distinguishing characteristics we might elect to shape the boundary the subdivisions grouping, but yea, I view them as segments of that primary nature, which is why I used the word 'real'.

This then does exclude a lot of the nonsense, which is most often what gets thrown up against feminism. Using the term feminism for an umbrella term for anything/everything related to feminism is too unstructured for me - I prefer stricter relationships and some structure beyond the groups boundaries themselves. If I had my database brain on I might know what I'm talking about.

But the confusion in threads like this is a most relevant sub-division of real feminism (to me) being the moral and ethical frontier, because its outside the purview of legalities but so damn intrinsic to the reality of achieving action in the main purpose/intent of feminism, that its action is vulnerable and harder to manage - meaning its a mess to discuss when emotions get involved even though it would be inherently trending towards the individual in scope - that would require a genuine involvement from both sides to make any progress, and so is basically a waste of time because it takes a lot of trust and respect to dance with the devil in those details. I guess it depends if the conversation is an excuse to whinge, or an opportunity to learn and create ideas. It's silly when threads go to a place where people are comparing silly examples of unrelated nonsense. For those who are not really invested in real struggles I can understand that making light at the expense of serious issues can amplify the experience of thinking they have some relevance to something but when they actually start thinking they are being informed, its misleading. I'm a bit boring like that...
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After all the philosophy of feminism is not feminism, it is about feminism. My point being (the various subdivision one can create to discuss particular types of) real feminism only really has value in genuine discussion - to contrast it against the popular means of people focusing on extreme examples, particular characters or other distorted/disingenuous representations of feminism and its isms which in reality are less about feminism and more about the characters or examples themselves.

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8 years 6 months ago - 8 years 6 months ago #205129 by Adder

Jamie Stick wrote:

ren wrote: Choosing to be a father and choosing to be a mother are false equivalences?


I don't know about parental roles, but choosing to carry and nurture a fetus to full human development is certainly not the same as being a genetic contributor at conception.


I agree, the mother risks health and physical injury in addition to the impact on her life by being pregnant. Termination occurs during this period and is a procedure she is involved with. Ongoing child care though, that is beyond the topic of pregnancy and on the broader issue of the entire child creation and parenting dilemma which is nearly a 20 year commitment. Different issues, with a relationship yes, but they are not equivalent IMO.

Or in more simple terms, if the father was to die at the moment after conception then it would have zero impact on the pregnancy going to term and having a successful birth - compared to the massive impact it would have on the raising of the child to an adult.

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8 years 6 months ago #205131 by

Jamie Stick wrote:

Star Forge wrote:

Jamie Stick wrote:

SeventhSL wrote:

Br. John wrote: The decision to terminate a pregnancy should be solely between the pregnant woman, her conscience and her doctor.


So zero choice = zero child support?


Non sequitur. You can't equate the inverse because it's a false equivalency.


[strike]Dude[/strike] I've only read two threads where you're involved at all, and like 75 of your posts that I've read start with "non sequitur."


Hmm... Maybe that should indicate to you there's a flaw in the popular reasoning...

P.S. Hyperbole doesn't suit you.


Well I am glad as hell you descended from the sky on a yellow nimbus cloud, sent by Tengri himself, to assume your role as the sole and inerrant judge and indicator of flaws in the popular reasoning, O great samurai of objectivity. May we all follow your example and chant the mantra of "non sequitur, non sequitur, non sequitur" until every Rosary and prayer bead in existence will not suffice to account for every utterance of those sacred words.

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8 years 6 months ago #205132 by Whyte Horse
I think it's obvious that men are better than women by now. It's also obvious that women are better than men. And by women I mean people with vajeejees and by men I mean people with peepees. Now if you happen to have a peepee and are a woman then men-women are better than women-men. So is that clear?

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8 years 6 months ago #205137 by Edan
Just a reminder... Discuss ideas not people...

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