Can you have a relationship with someone and still be a jedi

Chastity of the body may be miserliness of the spirit. ~ Kahlil Gibran

Ka Tak wrote: I never said anything about it being with a women

Does that make a difference?

Here - A modern day Jeddist believes in a society that does not discriminate on the basis of sexual orientation or circumstances of birth such as gender, ethnicity and national origin.
That’s right rim the front page of our site.

Ka Tak wrote: Hi Ka Tak here
I was wondering is it against the code to have a relationship with someone just wondering thanks

As long as they can (and do) legally consent, go for it.

Dont Jedi avoid relationships because they cause conflicts?

Fyxe wrote: Dont Jedi avoid relationships because they cause conflicts?

In fiction, Jedi avoided romantic relationships because of their tendencies to form attachment. Ironically, this is what lead to their eventual downfall and annihilation.

In practical application within the temple community, many Jedi here are in romantic relationships; with a significant number even being married or otherwise in domestic partnerships.

I'd ask as well, is it worth being a Jedi if such a key part of life is forbidden; or otherwise shunned?

Kohadre wrote:

Fyxe wrote: Dont Jedi avoid relationships because they cause conflicts?

In fiction ...

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I don't think it quite prudent to so emphasise the idea of relationships only being a source of conflict within fictional settings.


Anyone who has sworn to do a duty, is very likely to, at some point or another along the line, find a conflict between their desires, or the needs of their "relationships" vs the demands of their duty.

Most will seek to balance it as best they can, often not without significant cost....

Now whether it affects Jediism as a daily practice, perhaps not so much - but it is hard to have two masters, and many families don't appreciate playing second fiddle to a higher purpose....

Well no, I meant to say like real life though, I thought being a Jedi meant acting like the jedi in the movies?

The question was "don't Jedi avoid relationships because they cause conflicts?"

The answer is, look at the FAQ or Doctrine. This isn't just a bunch of people LARPing as characters from movies.
Saying you should have common sense in choosing your priorities (including relationships) should go without needing to be said