Playing Nice

13. Do not assume that your ideas and input are not worthy to
be shared. Sincerity in our words, even if brief, may open the
way to new insights for others. When prompted to share your
ideas, wait patiently to know that the leading and the time are
right, but do not let a sense of your unworthiness hold you
back. Be mindful that your contribution should arise from
experience, and trust that words will be given to you. Try to
speak clearly and distinctly, and with sensitivity to the needs of
others. Beware of speaking too predictably or too often, and of
making additions towards the end of a discussion when it has
already moved on.

14. Are your contributions to the Temple held in the spirit of
mindfulness and in the guidance of The Force? Remember
that we do not seek a majority nor even a consensus. As we
wait patiently for guidance from The Force, our experience is
that the right way will open and we shall be led into unity.

15. Do you take part as often as you can in the Temple and in
your community? Are you familiar enough with the Jedi
Council to contribute to its process? Do you consider difficult
questions with an informed mind as well as a generous and
loving spirit? Are you prepared to let your insights and
personal wishes take their place alongside those of others or
to be set aside? When not participating in The Temple,
continue to nurture mindfulness in whatever you do.

16. Do you welcome the diversity of culture, language and
expressions of faith at the Temple? Seek to increase your
understanding and to gain from the rich heritage and wide
range of spiritual insights. Uphold what you have learnt from
others in your mind.

17. Do you respect the manifestation of The Force in
everyone, though it may be expressed in unfamiliar ways or
be difficult to discern? Each of us has a particular experience
of The Force and each of us must find the ways to be true to
it. When words are strange or disturbing to you, try to sense
where they come from and what has nourished the lives of
others. Listen patiently and seek the truth which other people’s
opinions may contain for you. Avoid hurtful criticism and
provocative language. Do not allow the strength of your
convictions to betray you into making statements or
allegations that are unfair or untrue. Think it possible that you
have been mistaken.

18. How can we make The Temple a community in which
each person is accepted and nurtured, and strangers are
welcome? Seek to know one another in the things which are
eternal, bear the burden of each other’s failings and help one
another. As we enter with tender sympathy into the joys and
sorrows of each other’s lives, ready to give help and receive it,
The Temple can be a channel for love and forgiveness.