My confession

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You screwed up, I can understand that you feel guilty and remorseful. I would like to point out though, that your other contributions to the site have been helpful and appreciated. If you see no other effective way to handle this, if you feel that that is the best course to take. I understand. I am also sure that I do not stand alone when I say that while your previous actions are not condoned, that if you choose to leave (and it appears you have), that you will be missed. I am also sure that many here are willing to accept you back into the fold anytime you so desire. I wish you the best of luck and I hope that you don't let your negative feelings and your transgressions taint the good things you have learned here. MTFBWYA

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Sucks to see you leave, but you don't have to leave.

You want to be better? Then be the best you can be...you don't exile yourself...you work hard and keep your head down.

I agree with learn to know .

Pretty mezzed up.

Hope you work it out . I know someone that cheated and wurlk it out

This is not LTK, this is his wife, Amanda. Don't any of you see? He's leaving the site because he has shattered all trust between us. His actions show that he can't be trusted online. This was a hobby of his and he's chosen to transfer those HOURS he spent on here to spend with his family trying to repair what he broke- not exactly exiling himself. These responses sicken me. This is the first time I've ever browsed anything on this site, and I can't believe you all are concerned with him staying to help contribute to YOUR discussions. How about him finding a way to make his marriage work? To rebuild trust with his wife - (you know, since I just read about his professed love to another woman & his intentions to leave me during the end of a pregnancy)? And to spend time with his wife & kids? I know you all are his friends, not mine, but is there really no one who can see that leaving what brought on this whole horrid mess for us is a good idea?

Thank you. Finally someone that gets it. (Again, not LTK, his wife instead)

Beat it, LTK. Not because I'm sitting here judging you, but because no measure of success outside the home can make up for failure within it. Take care of your family. They are your foundation, and you are theirs. That is priority one, and you know this. Go be the man your wife and children need. I know you can.

LTK...I won't insult you or your wife by making light of your actions.

I do not judge - none of us are perfect and our flaws manifest in different ways. I have made some huge mistakes in my relationships too and I know how sometimes we do things without setting out to hurt people but it's only with the benefits of time and hindsight that we realise how much harm we are actually causing.

As it happens I already knew parts of this story and of course I had been treating you no differently to how I did before. I respect you and was excited that you were joining the ranks of Knights at this Temple. I would be sad to see you go.

However, I will not try to persuade you to stay - if leaving is what you need to do to try to repair things with your wife and children, then I cannot be anything but supportive of your decision. There is no use anyone staying here if it causes them to lose everything else they hold dear.

My thoughts are with you, your wife and family, and if I never get to speak to you again - thank you for enhancing my experience of the Temple and being a friend. You will be missed.