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Does anyone get a "Buzz" from helping people?
07 Aug 2014 03:04 #154950
by Adder
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Yep, I think it might have something to do with reinforcing one's values. In some places good and kind behavior is so rare that even the most normal good act might stand out as a beacon of light!!
If those values are rare in society then it might increase the reaction in oneself, but then I guess you might also get a buzz seeing others do it too. I think I get a semi-buzz from seeing others doing good. If your values are really unique then it might even transform into a rewarding experience of self expression, reinforcing psychological aspects like self identity and social role.
I guess it's one of those that can become desensitized through repeated exposure, but everyone is different and I imagine it could even go the other way and become an increasing source of positive energy within oneself.
If those values are rare in society then it might increase the reaction in oneself, but then I guess you might also get a buzz seeing others do it too. I think I get a semi-buzz from seeing others doing good. If your values are really unique then it might even transform into a rewarding experience of self expression, reinforcing psychological aspects like self identity and social role.
I guess it's one of those that can become desensitized through repeated exposure, but everyone is different and I imagine it could even go the other way and become an increasing source of positive energy within oneself.
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07 Aug 2014 03:29 #154956
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This happens to me often. I once got drunk off of helping people!
In all seriousness, though, yes I get that feeling when I help people too.
In all seriousness, though, yes I get that feeling when I help people too.
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07 Aug 2014 04:01 #154958
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I'd go so far as to say that helping people is a reason to live.
Having said that it is my experience that the people who need your help the most never want it and the people who want it only think they need it. I guess that's why the best form of service is the one that goes unnoticed.
Just my thoughts.
Having said that it is my experience that the people who need your help the most never want it and the people who want it only think they need it. I guess that's why the best form of service is the one that goes unnoticed.
Just my thoughts.
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07 Aug 2014 04:06 #154959
by RyuJin
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Out of darkness, he brings light. Out of hatred, love. Out of dishonor, honor-james allen-
He who has conquered doubt and fear has conquered failure-james allen-
The sword is the key to heaven and hell-Mahomet-
The best won victory is that obtained without shedding blood-Count Katsu-
All men's souls are immortal, only the souls of the righteous are immortal and divine -Socrates-
I'm the best at what I do, what I do ain't pretty-wolverine
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Former Masters: GM Kana Seiko Haruki , Br.John
Current Apprentices: Baru
Former Apprentices:Adhara(knight), Zenchi (knight)
Replied by RyuJin on topic Does anyone get a "Buzz" from helping people?
That never happens to me 
I do it so often that when someone I help shows gratitude it kind of irks me...thanking me for doing something that anyone can do :dry:
When I was in the navy I rescued a swimmer from a strong undertow, when they thanked me I thought they were being sarcastic
Maybe I'm defective :laugh:

I do it so often that when someone I help shows gratitude it kind of irks me...thanking me for doing something that anyone can do :dry:
When I was in the navy I rescued a swimmer from a strong undertow, when they thanked me I thought they were being sarcastic

Maybe I'm defective :laugh:
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There is passion, yet there is peace
Through passion I gain strength and knowledge
Through strength and knowledge I gain victory
Through victory I gain peace and harmony
Through peace and harmony my chains are broken
There is no death, there is the force and it shall free me
Through passion I gain strength and knowledge
Through strength and knowledge I gain victory
Through victory I gain peace and harmony
Through peace and harmony my chains are broken
There is no death, there is the force and it shall free me
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Warning: Spoiler!
Out of darkness, he brings light. Out of hatred, love. Out of dishonor, honor-james allen-
He who has conquered doubt and fear has conquered failure-james allen-
The sword is the key to heaven and hell-Mahomet-
The best won victory is that obtained without shedding blood-Count Katsu-
All men's souls are immortal, only the souls of the righteous are immortal and divine -Socrates-
I'm the best at what I do, what I do ain't pretty-wolverine
J.L.Lawson,Master Knight, M.div, Eastern Studies S.I.G. Advisor (Formerly Known as the Buddhist Rite)
Former Masters: GM Kana Seiko Haruki , Br.John
Current Apprentices: Baru
Former Apprentices:Adhara(knight), Zenchi (knight)
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07 Aug 2014 05:55 #154964
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I love the feeling I get when I've helped someone. I'm often brought to tears. I hate being thanked and get embarrassed and I really sometimes get irritated when there are awards for having done something considered good. I guess I feel its something everyone does and shouldn't be considered "special". In my rational brain I know not everyone does and it irks me. It should be a given that we help our fellow beings.
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07 Aug 2014 13:42 #155007
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This does not happen to me. Like RyuJin, I help as part of my life, it is every day part of my routine and thus common to me. For me not to help would be an irregularity in my behavior and I suspect I would get a negative impression from not assisting.
Being a leader in my advice and mentor military members all the time. I discuss being ivolved and assisting in the community as part of being a well rounded individual, and being a good ambassador of the military to the people.
However, I also caution that helping others for a gain, is selfish and not giving/helping for the true intent. If you are helping others to make yourself feel better or, get a euphoric feeling, recognition, or prestige, then this becomes a selfish act. Aim to help because it is the right thing to do, a part of your every day life and not for what you get out of it.
I am not saying that anyone is being selfish, I just caution to remind ourselves the true reason we help should not be for personal gain, it can be addictive, like a drug. The focus should truly be to assist the person in need.
Being a leader in my advice and mentor military members all the time. I discuss being ivolved and assisting in the community as part of being a well rounded individual, and being a good ambassador of the military to the people.
However, I also caution that helping others for a gain, is selfish and not giving/helping for the true intent. If you are helping others to make yourself feel better or, get a euphoric feeling, recognition, or prestige, then this becomes a selfish act. Aim to help because it is the right thing to do, a part of your every day life and not for what you get out of it.
I am not saying that anyone is being selfish, I just caution to remind ourselves the true reason we help should not be for personal gain, it can be addictive, like a drug. The focus should truly be to assist the person in need.
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07 Aug 2014 14:05 #155013
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I only get a slight buzz
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07 Aug 2014 19:08 #155073
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Yes! The more you do the more you get.
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07 Aug 2014 22:19 #155088
by RyuJin
Quotes:
Out of darkness, he brings light. Out of hatred, love. Out of dishonor, honor-james allen-
He who has conquered doubt and fear has conquered failure-james allen-
The sword is the key to heaven and hell-Mahomet-
The best won victory is that obtained without shedding blood-Count Katsu-
All men's souls are immortal, only the souls of the righteous are immortal and divine -Socrates-
I'm the best at what I do, what I do ain't pretty-wolverine
J.L.Lawson,Master Knight, M.div, Eastern Studies S.I.G. Advisor (Formerly Known as the Buddhist Rite)
Former Masters: GM Kana Seiko Haruki , Br.John
Current Apprentices: Baru
Former Apprentices:Adhara(knight), Zenchi (knight)
Replied by RyuJin on topic Does anyone get a "Buzz" from helping people?
Now that I think about it I think the reason I don't get a "buzz" is because part of me feels that it is a responsibility of the strong to aid the weak, and one shouldn't be rewarded for fulfilling a responsibility...
Warning: Spoiler!
There is passion, yet there is peace
Through passion I gain strength and knowledge
Through strength and knowledge I gain victory
Through victory I gain peace and harmony
Through peace and harmony my chains are broken
There is no death, there is the force and it shall free me
Through passion I gain strength and knowledge
Through strength and knowledge I gain victory
Through victory I gain peace and harmony
Through peace and harmony my chains are broken
There is no death, there is the force and it shall free me
Quotes:
Warning: Spoiler!
Out of darkness, he brings light. Out of hatred, love. Out of dishonor, honor-james allen-
He who has conquered doubt and fear has conquered failure-james allen-
The sword is the key to heaven and hell-Mahomet-
The best won victory is that obtained without shedding blood-Count Katsu-
All men's souls are immortal, only the souls of the righteous are immortal and divine -Socrates-
I'm the best at what I do, what I do ain't pretty-wolverine
J.L.Lawson,Master Knight, M.div, Eastern Studies S.I.G. Advisor (Formerly Known as the Buddhist Rite)
Former Masters: GM Kana Seiko Haruki , Br.John
Current Apprentices: Baru
Former Apprentices:Adhara(knight), Zenchi (knight)
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08 Aug 2014 09:14 #155130
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Yes, the motivation should be to help, not the buzz you get as a result. To do something for the recognition would be even worse. It's sometimes the little things I do for people that no one else knows about that have the most significance.

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