Apology

Jestor wrote:

Zenchi wrote: You "lumpin" me in with Hannigan now?? Think you hurt my feels...

lol, yes, but in my 'favorite people' lumping...

favorite people...TO BAN!!

Zenchi wrote:

Jestor wrote:

Silas Mercury wrote: Ha, yeah, OB1, Jestor groups you, me, Gisteron, Ryder and Khaos as 'Rebels' lol !!

Careful, thats not what I said...

Sorry for the derail...

Please start a new thread or PM me if this gets too off track, lol... :lol:

Warning: Spoiler!

Repeating what someone said, and naming them, is a good way to have fewer discussions, especially if, in this case, someone (Gisteron lets say) took offence, and wanted to get defensive about it...

My words were:

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Challenging someone is not a problem here at TOTJO, it is HOW the challenging is done... I have received many complaints about you Silas, and the manner in which you are still so 'black and white' in your thinking, and the fact that you speak, uh, without fully thinking through the ramifications of your words,

Murasaki, the last person removed, and the "diver', crap, I cannot remember his name, thought that this was the 'wild west' and they could speak as they wanted, because it is the internet...

There have been many, Zenchi is another... Hannigan is another... Trisskar, her hubby Mindas, all listed so far as bumped heads with me... Elizabeth, Wescli, Brenna, Edan, Cabur, Alex Orion, everyone here has affected my thinking, and I really, really enjoy it... But, it must be done with respect... I treat you with respect, I expect the same consideration... I dont lump you all together, in a group, except to say 'people I like', I called no one, anything...

You "lumpin" me in with Hannigan now?? Think you hurt my feels...

Hey you can be a jackass with your comments, but really you wish you can be any where near my level.

thank you for the Apology i think apologizing can be hard. but growth comes in many ways. thanks friend.

Firewolf wrote: thank you for the Apology i think apologizing can be hard. but growth comes in many ways. thanks friend.

Apoogizies set bad standards. I can not recall the last time I gave one.

opportunity to set an example?

MJ Hannigan wrote:

Firewolf wrote: thank you for the Apology i think apologizing can be hard. but growth comes in many ways. thanks friend.

Apoogizies set bad standards. I can not recall the last time I gave one.

You have humbled yourself in the sight of your fellow jedis. We do not forget these things...

Silas,

Although me and you have not seen particularity eye ti eye in our conversations I have enjoyed your perspective. It believe you will grow into a good man but for now you are stuck in a youth full ideal which is quick to action based on emotion. This is not a bad thing to have these ideals but it is to say that they are more useful then others particularly when they put others freedoms of Idealism at risk. As for the question you asked on taking life no need to apologize, it is a curiosity that hopefully very few have to understand the answer too. Everyone has a past, some would like to leave it there and let it be, I will share openly, but my Father was very hard to get to open up about what War and his experiences. I look forward to good future conversations with you Silas, take no offense (your a good kid) and I have faith through actions like this apology that you'll be a better man.

Much peace,
Tim

Thanks for the apology, just remember that words are only as good as the actions that follow them.