Grief

Don't feel guilty, elizabeth. Crying and sadness are natural, but for people like us who believe that life is the Force, and that death can have no power over it, sadness is unnecessary. We never truly lose anything. They simply go missing for a short time

From a conference I attended in July. This speaker has a very different way of dealing with grief. You might find some of it useful or food for thought at least.

http://chrisguillebeau.com/megan-devine/