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For the record, I dont like rex and he doesnt like me and so I dont think our interactions will end fairly. However for you rosalyn I will hear him out. Does he send an PM to me? Right now i still want to progress.
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Fyxe wrote: For the record, I dont like rex and he doesnt like me and so I dont think our interactions will end fairly. However for you rosalyn I will hear him out. Does he send an PM to me? Right now i still want to progress.
Be careful about believing that you dislike people and that they dislike you: its a self-fulfilling prophesy.
Look, ive been here several years and I have gone back and forth in disagreements and sometimes even maybe hostilities with- hell i dont even know how many people, lol, some of them are posting here in this thread. As individuals within a social group, many of us find ourselves at odds with some other individual/s over some issue, at some time. As imperfect human beings, its not uncommon that emotions become agitated and language becomes combative or at least, competitive and blunt. With this being said, i think MOST of us would agree that even the people we tend to disagree with still bring value to this space. Some of us have come to like people that we thought we didnt or couldnt like as we got to know them better over time and even where we might not say we “like” each other, we can still value one another simply because we recognize our shared connection as long term participants in this community.
So, dont be so quick to dislike us — or to believe that we dislike you.
People are complicated.
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As for progressing, why would a rank exist other than to be earned and used? I mean it seems silly that a rank exists, and I have earned its awarding but dont get that because someone like... well I'll just say whoever... wants to nitpick my posts so hard they alone say I dont earn it.
I just want what is fair and what I'm deserved. If I do t deserve it yet so be it, but I want to know I didnt earn it on merit and not because someone have an issue with me.
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Fyxe wrote: Sure that all sounds good. I just want to be treated fair. So who ever is capable of that I will work with.
As for progressing, why would a rank exist other than to be earned and used? I mean it seems silly that a rank exists, and I have earned its awarding but dont get that because someone like... well I'll just say whoever... wants to nitpick my posts so hard they alone say I dont earn it.
I just want what is fair and what I'm deserved. If I do t deserve it yet so be it, but I want to know I didnt earn it on merit and not because someone have an issue with me.
You assume he's incapable of being objective or impartial for having open disagreements, in the same discussion where you clearly frame "fairness" as not criticizing you, if not giving you positive feedback. You assume that fairness, where you are involved, means "things go how you want". I think this is a rather telling assumption on your part, that you openly express a deliberately one-sided perspective, and insist that you cannot be the source of your troubles, it has to be someone or something outside of yourself. It speaks to an uncritical adherence to circular reasoning, regardless if it is productive, and a lacking in self awareness, and it's hard to argue you're open to trust if it's so easy to lose, and, dare I say, unreasonably conditional. These are all stumbling blocks along your path, again, tied heavily to your ego. Work on that.
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Fyxe wrote: Sorry kelrax but your just wrong. I'm not your child so don't speak to me in your condescending tone. I will be treated like an adult or you will be ignored. Who do you think you are?
In order to not infer tone over text where none may exist, I find it useful to read it with a smile
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Fyxe wrote: Sorry kelrax but your just wrong. I'm not your child so don't speak to me in your condescending tone. I will be treated like an adult or you will be ignored. Who do you think you are?
-shrug- I don't hold any importance/authority here, so, ignore me if you like (big threat, there; you've mostly done so anyway). But don't kid yourself- not liking what I say is not the same as what I said being wrong.
Again, you resent people simply for "how they talk to you", and you don't consider what they've actually said. You assume that you're right, they're wrong, and criticism can only come from a place a malice, thereby rendering it incorrect. Frankly, you're displaying a very immature attitude, and I thought it was in your best interest that someone call you on it, especially if you aspire to more closely emulate the Jedi of fiction. You can't tell me you think you'll progress anywhere if you're so thin-skinned and egotistical?
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Rosalyn J wrote:
Fyxe wrote: Sorry kelrax but your just wrong. I'm not your child so don't speak to me in your condescending tone. I will be treated like an adult or you will be ignored. Who do you think you are?
In order to not infer tone over text where none may exist, I find it useful to read it with a smile
Wiser than I am, Ros, that's what YOU are.
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Rosalyn J wrote:
Fyxe wrote: Sorry kelrax but your just wrong. I'm not your child so don't speak to me in your condescending tone. I will be treated like an adult or you will be ignored. Who do you think you are?
In order to not infer tone over text where none may exist, I find it useful to read it with a smile
Maybe I'm not seeing the smile I guess. I mean we start to really make some good understandings and he has to come in here with his two cents and just ruin it! frustrating!!
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Mean I need to be talked down to or treated like I'm less than they are
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Fyxe wrote: Sorry kelrax but your just wrong. I'm not your child so don't speak to me in your condescending tone. I will be treated like an adult or you will be ignored. Who do you think you are?
You are acting like a child. If you want to be treated like an adult, please start acting like one.
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Fyxe wrote: Sorry kelrax but your just wrong. I'm not your child so don't speak to me in your condescending tone. I will be treated like an adult or you will be ignored. Who do you think you are?
You are acting like a child. If you want to be treated like an adult, please start acting like one.
Your acting like a child as well!
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steamboat28 wrote: You are acting like a child...
I dont think its an act! Im wondering if maybe we should start thinking of ourselves as models/examples of how adults ought to deal with children over the internet.
People are complicated.
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What I see in this thread is different forms of attachment. Actually, I’m considering a further edit to the Principles of Jediism I proposed because of it- the current incarnation reads:“A Jedi is wary of attachments, both material and personal, recognizing that such lead to emotional entrapment.”
But it may be more appropriate to make the statement a bit more broad and strike “both material and personal” so that it reads:
“ A Jedi is wary of attachments, recognizing that such lead to emotional entrapment.”
The kinds of attachment present are less obvious. The attachment is in the form of approach for each person involved in the on-going discussion. I have to admit, in many ways this thread has caused me to see a line of attachment I have illustrated in approach in years past. Not just here at ToTJO, but also on Facebook groups. At some point the conversation must end or change to get anywhere.
We don’t just do this for ourselves though, it can also be for the people which we are engaged in verbal conflict, to give them time to consider what has been said. They may never return to it, they may never end up thanking their opponent if they do take the advice later...the point isn’t to receive something from the exchange, but rather that the opportunity for both/all parties to reflect is given regardless of whether or not it is taken.
I think that’s the point this thread has reached. Though, I will not at all, pretend that by simply pointing it out, others will agreed that they have reached their last word...afterall, I’m not entirely sure myself if I would feel that way were I as involved as some of you are.
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I am not a teacher yet from someone who has found a reality in some of these theories i can elaborate a bit more. On telekinesis the ability to move objects i have not met anyone who can do that nor know of that existence. I did however meditate with a rock on hardwood floor having some realizations as i mediated.
I can see entities and feel them which is a power or gift that some people have which meditating helps with that as well. What besides telekinesis are you interested in for to a certain extend you can use force manipulation against someone. Also astral projection and manifesting your hand around someones throat is always fun as a joke may i clarify. I had asked a friends consent of course and he felt it so there is some reality to some of those things.
I would recommend checking out the threads as others have said and the ip work is a good start for completing those will help further you for the mentor part. Take your time and i hope you enjoy your journey as you connect with the force which i believe in due time grows to a personal level. Which then you may be able to understand yourself and the right teacher will come when they are meant to for i see a good future for you.
May the force guide you
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I think it's very possible. Certain spiritual texts mention said powers, although I think some may have happened while others may have been exaggerated, it's hard to tell. I am sure there are people that know this power. It's hard to tell as some are faking it while the real ones hide much like how there are fake psychics, but there are also real psychics too and when one sees a fake, they assume that everyone who claims such powers are frauds.
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