When and how should thread locking be used?

14 Jun 2018 21:38 #323022 by Dano Ori

ren wrote: Its a problem when person A does not seek to understand B yet person B seeks to understand A, not realizing there is nothing to understand, resulting in B getting brutalised by A...

Does that perspective not neglect the third option where person B, seeking to understand person A, does realise person A is disinterested in understanding and can then moderate their interactions accordingly?

I don't see how it must either be mutual understanding or none at all. That seems to engender an attitude of 'I won't try to understand you until you try to understand me'.

Not trying to be combative, I'm just trying to understand why it is that you see it that way.

All respect is earned; especially self-respect.
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