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self examination and the Conflict Impulse
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flight or fight seems to apply to even to silly things like internet trolling
thats the topic -why do we react when we know better?
also i wanted to respond to the HARSH WORDS thread by saying that imo its never appropriate to use "harsh words"
i say this knowing that i use them sometimes myself - and that i consider it a weakness
sometimes its necessary to spell things out in clear and direct language
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the tone, certainly on the internet where we really can just Not read or respond, does not ever HAVE to be harsh
also in the global thinking thread i wanted to say that the psychological definition of PROJECTION is a phenomena where a person denies some aspect of their behavior or attitude and assumes instead that OTHERS are doing or thinking so
see specifically PROJECTION OF GENERAL GUILT
this is my "hope to be a psychology major but at least i have wikipedia and youtube" response to the interesting threads in the jediism forum, which i am excluded from on grounds of my non eliteness lololol
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or at least didnt have to react the way i reacted
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Through passion I gain strength and knowledge
Through strength and knowledge I gain victory
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Through peace and harmony my chains are broken
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Out of darkness, he brings light. Out of hatred, love. Out of dishonor, honor-james allen-
He who has conquered doubt and fear has conquered failure-james allen-
The sword is the key to heaven and hell-Mahomet-
The best won victory is that obtained without shedding blood-Count Katsu-
All men's souls are immortal, only the souls of the righteous are immortal and divine -Socrates-
I'm the best at what I do, what I do ain't pretty-wolverine
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Good comment. In media theory there are the notions of cold and hot media. According to Marshall McLuhan, media are to be judged in how many ways they act on the recipient. A medium that acts on a variety of senses, such as TV (which acts on both the eye and the ear, predominantly on the eye) generate less response from the recipient than cold media (such as radio, which only acts on the ear and which prompts the recipient to complete the missing sensorial information in the mind, thus engaging the recipient more). Generally speaking, media that primarily act on the visual level are hotter than those that primarily act on the ear, because visual information tends to be fuller and requires less of a cognital response.RyuJin wrote: i think it's because online our physical defenses don't exist...we have to rely entirely on our psychological defense...and being a text only medium we don't have the benefit of seeing body language or hearing vocal tone...which puts added strain on our psychological defenses....it's like stripping away the flesh surrounding a nerve, leaving the nerve exposed and tender....it's just a matter of time before the annoyance becomes pain...
Print media are considered hot media -because they're visual, but also because they're linear in nature. I'd say forums, however, are cold in nature - the linearity is lost, as the they're interactive. Because of the latter, they engage the reader in a dramatical way - there's very little sensory information available when reading, but the way the reader can interact prompts a massive mental / cognitive response. At the same time, the internet user, who is by and large an anonymous entity, knows that there is little chance that his or her interactions will have direct physical consequences, so there goes the inhibition. Strong mental response combined with a lack of inhibition leads to the kind of outbursts that are typical for some internet forums. Depending on the forum (I'd say that TotJO is quite civil compared to other places), there are fewer or more circumstances present that may prompt inhibition in the reader. If a reader wants to be a long-term member of an online community, he or she will be more inclined to stay polite than if someone's just a one-time poster.
Anyway, was an attempt at explaining forum outbursts from the view of a media theorist.
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Through peace and harmony my chains are broken
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Out of darkness, he brings light. Out of hatred, love. Out of dishonor, honor-james allen-
He who has conquered doubt and fear has conquered failure-james allen-
The sword is the key to heaven and hell-Mahomet-
The best won victory is that obtained without shedding blood-Count Katsu-
All men's souls are immortal, only the souls of the righteous are immortal and divine -Socrates-
I'm the best at what I do, what I do ain't pretty-wolverine
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RyuJin wrote: generally i try to read things at least 3 times before replying...while i read through i take my time and read it with a monotone voice in an effort to remove emotion from it before i reply....
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Through passion I gain strength and knowledge
Through strength and knowledge I gain victory
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Through peace and harmony my chains are broken
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Out of darkness, he brings light. Out of hatred, love. Out of dishonor, honor-james allen-
He who has conquered doubt and fear has conquered failure-james allen-
The sword is the key to heaven and hell-Mahomet-
The best won victory is that obtained without shedding blood-Count Katsu-
All men's souls are immortal, only the souls of the righteous are immortal and divine -Socrates-
I'm the best at what I do, what I do ain't pretty-wolverine
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RyuJin wrote: generally i try to read things at least 3 times before replying...while i read through i take my time and read it with a monotone voice in an effort to remove emotion from it before i reply....
I do the same thing with my replies. Pretty much any time you see me post that post has been read and edited three or four times. Which is why sometimes it's a little late to the game. :laugh:
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