(TED) Love-you're doing it wrong/ Comment sauver l'amour?

http://www.ted.com/talks/yann_dall_aglio_love_you_re_doing_it_wrong.html

It's suggested that part of the video is missing... Transcript of the missing part below.
"I believe that self-mockery is one of the best means for the relationship to last. There is a lot of beauty and humanity in the fact of understanding that I am too small, too mediocre to confront the other and harm them, and vice versa. In this regard, I would like to conclude this talk letting you contemplate and meditate on a sentence that you may already know, but I believe it really deserves to be rediscovered everyday: ♪ Us mere nothings should not be tearing♪ ♪ each other apart ♪ ♪ Music! ♪ (Applause) "

I thought it was a well done video. It asks the question- how reliant are we upon others for our 'value'? And it seems to me that we are very much dependent on others for that! What do you think? I hope you enjoy the video, and if you've any pondering, please ponder away on this thread for good conversation,