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7 years 8 months ago #249985 by Leah Starspectre
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Connor L. wrote: Jedi do not smoke is really a powerful maxim because it is what OTHER people who are not Jedi would say too.

If you were a known Jedi, and you were smoking in public, I could totally see a stranger coming up to you and saying: "Jedi don't smoke... what are you doing?"

Same with me and junk food. "Jedi aren't fat and out of shape, though.. how can you be a Jedi?"


This strikes home with me. I get it.

I wish you all the luck, Den!!! You're strong enough for this :)
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7 years 8 months ago - 7 years 8 months ago #249988 by OB1Shinobi
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i tend to inverse it
for the record, i smoked cigarettes for the better part of 20 years, and ive not smoked for almost three years now

every once in a while my body remembers the experience in a pleasant way and i have a sort of "craving"
which is inconvenient
and at first it was like a struggle with myself until i re-framed my perception by saying that i now am strong and in control enough to use my freedom of choice to do whats healthy

so it isnt a battle of saying "i really want to do this bad thing that is unhealthy" but rather "wow, i am so glad that ive reached the point where i can choose to do this good thing that is healthy"

and also i have work out and fitness accomplishments that i can look to and say "i want to keep this; keeping this is more important than a momentary (false) pleasure of smoking" (now that i am "old" i cant smoke AND be fit, i have had to choose)

these are the things that have been working for me so far

whatever works for you, GOOD LUCK den

People are complicated.
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7 years 8 months ago #249995 by
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Ultimately, "it is not me" moment when I smoked in restricted area helped. It was a tiny insight, a glance at myself from outside.

Of course, it's the positive thing that keeps me going - it's replacement of smoking, carefully nurtured, that is a stable value. And for me the replacement of smoking is "Jedi way" - concretely, sport & meditation - but as a part of paradigm.

I'm sure that I can stop now not because of self-hypnotic bravery or desperate need, but because I've managed to tie smoking to my principles and to confront smoking with my principles. When it's a matter of principle, I'm really stubborn.

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7 years 8 months ago #250011 by
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Frontier-1 seized - 3 days.
Frontier-2 ahead - 1 week.

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7 years 8 months ago #250015 by
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Congrats on hitting day 3! I wish you the best of luck in hitting your next goal! :)

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7 years 8 months ago #250016 by Leah Starspectre
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7 years 8 months ago #250054 by
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You know Master Orion smokes, right ?

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7 years 8 months ago #250055 by
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No he does not , he vapes :laugh:

Silas Mercury wrote: You know Master Orion smokes, right ?

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7 years 8 months ago #250056 by
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Just keep going , you can do this :cheer:

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7 years 8 months ago - 7 years 8 months ago #250057 by
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No, I did not. And yes, I still think that smoking ain't Jedi way.

But so are many of my weaknesses that I do not work on. Resources are limited, we have to choose direction of development. I do not smoke, but I'm in bad physical shape. That's not Jedi way too, imo. I can do better and that'd be fun!

P.S. If he vapes without nicotine, example is invalid! B)
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