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Profiles - Gender
Given some of the discussions that have happened at totjo in the past, and the variety of people here, I wondered if perhaps we could be more inclusive and have some other options, even if it just 'other - please ask.'
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ren wrote: My experience of such people at totjo is that they absolutely need to be one or the other -- can't remain as neither even if that's how they were born. there are 3 options though, the third one being non-disclosure.
In the spirit of not making assumptions about people, non disclosure isn't very helpful.
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Edan wrote:
ren wrote: My experience of such people at totjo is that they absolutely need to be one or the other -- can't remain as neither even if that's how they were born. there are 3 options though, the third one being non-disclosure.
In the spirit of not making assumptions about people, non disclosure isn't very helpful.
even if it just 'other - please ask.'
You sure change your mind quick don't you?!

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ren wrote:
Edan wrote:
ren wrote: My experience of such people at totjo is that they absolutely need to be one or the other -- can't remain as neither even if that's how they were born. there are 3 options though, the third one being non-disclosure.
In the spirit of not making assumptions about people, non disclosure isn't very helpful.even if it just 'other - please ask.'
You sure change your mind quick don't you?!
I'm sorry? 'other' isn't non disclosure... It's a disclosure that it's not straight forward male or female.
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