THE FOLLY OF PLEASING ALL

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13 Aug 2024 02:50 #377665 by Br. John
THE FOLLY OF PLEASING ALL

by: Benjamin Franklin (1706-1790)

Once on a Time it by Chance came to pass,
That a Man and his Son were leading an Ass.

Cries a Passenger, Neighbor, you're shrewdly put to it,
To lead an Ass empty, and trudge it on foot.

Nay, quoth the old Fellow, if Folk do so mind us
I'll climb up the Ass, and Boy mount behind us:

But as they jogg'd on they were laugh't and hisse'd,
What, two booby Lubbers on one sorry Beast!

This is such a Figure as never was known;
It's a sign that the Ass is none of your own.

Then down gets the Boy, and walks by the Side,
Till another cries, What, you old Fool must you ride?

When you see the poor Child that's weakly and young
Forced through thick and thin to trudge it along,

Then down gets the Father, and up gets the Son;
If this cannot please them we ne'er shall have done.

They had not gone far, but a Woman cries out,
Oh you young graceless Imp, you'll be hanged, no doubt!

Must you ride an Ass, and your Father that's grey
E'en foot it, and pick out the best of his Way?

So now to please all they but one Trick lack,
And that was to carry the Ass a pick pack:

But when that was tried, it appeared such a Jest,
It occasioned more Laughter by half than the rest.

Thus he who'd please all, and their Good liking gain,
Shows a great deal Good Nature, but labours in vain.
I posted this back in 2014 and it's high time for a repost.  That's how they spelled in those days but the message is as relevant today as it was when written. ~ Br. John

p.s.  Discussion is most appreciated.

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16 Sep 2024 03:22 #377906 by Cornilion Seadragon
Oddly, it doesn't feel like they're actually "pleasing" anyone. Nobody in this story except the father and son (and donkey) are impacted by what they're doing. It's just random opinions by people who have no reason to care. It feels like on some level the moral isn't so much about how you can't please everyone as it is about tuning out the noise from the peanut gallery.

Either way it feels like the core message is: be discerning about who you take input from or how much you really ought to change according to that input.
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