please, healing and good wishes for my fiance.

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10 years 4 months ago #123109 by
Well, long story short. My fiance, has a lot of health problems.
And recently, she feels like she is about to go into another thyroid storm. (She has thyroid problems bad) for those who aren't familiar with this, it's very dangerous. And can result in coma and death.
And also her right foot is swollen, which is something else entirely.
I am taking her to the hospital today. And need all the good wishes I can get from my fellow brothers and sisters.
I love her a lot. And feel helpless, like a bad spouse. Because there is absolutely nothing I can do. Except moral support.

Thank you all.
And may the force be with you.

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10 years 4 months ago #123113 by
It is important to remember that moral support is no small thing. Staying by her side with all your heart and soul as well as staying strong can have a profound impact. If you stay by her side and be a pillar for her to lean on during this ordeal you are most certainly not a "bad spouse". I wish the best for you and your spouse.

Keep the love flowing, stay strong and may the Force be with you,
Rai

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10 years 4 months ago #123114 by Proteus
She is in my thoughts. Please have my deepest well wishes...

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10 years 4 months ago #123117 by Wescli Wardest
I will keep her in my thoughts...
And you.

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10 years 4 months ago #123118 by SilverWolf
By saying you love her alot, You aren't a bad spouse, you are a loving spouse, and Moral support ( even though it doesn't seem like it) IS a GREAT DEAL of help...so you are far from helpless. I know from experience that sometimes the hardest thing to do is just to "be there for the person you love" and not really do much of anything other than moral support for them. It's hard to do, because you feel like you aren't doing anything...but you are...trust me. And when things seem they are darkest, stay strong, hold that love close, and be that pillar of strength for her, and in essence help her through this battle. you both CAN do this.

My thoughts are with you during this time,
WOLF
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10 years 4 months ago #123119 by
My wife had a minor day operation two months ago but there were complications and we ended up staying in the hospital for 18 hours. I agree with Raidoutenshi that just being there for her by her side is no small thing.

My thoughts are with you. Take care.

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10 years 4 months ago #123121 by
I am doing my best to stay positive.
It's hard. When you see The one you love going through so much.
Especially at a young age(we are both 21.) I just want to do all I can. To protect her.

May the force be wtth you all.

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10 years 4 months ago #123123 by
I have an autoimmune disease that affects the thyroid, so I know how hard it is. I will send her some healing.

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10 years 4 months ago #123129 by
Do you have a: first name, nick name or uniqueness fact/expression I can tune in on? PM is you wish.

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10 years 4 months ago #123138 by
My name is Corey, hers is Rebecca.

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