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20 Aug 2017 16:56 - 20 Aug 2017 17:28 #298784 by OB1Shinobi
Not being privy to the inner sanctum, Im rather in the dark and am having to piece together random bits of journal entries.
I have come to like, respect, and in many cases admire, pretty much everyone who has regularly participated with this domain within the last two or three years. Even those of you with whom i often disagree, and even several of you with whom i almost never directly speak. I dont want to name names because theres too many, and inevitably i would miss someone. You who are reading this; please trust that you are included in that statement.

I guess this post is meant to serve a few diffierent functions: an expression of affection (and perhaps a plea for hope?) towards a community which has helped me to become a better person, an inquiry as to the current state and likely future of that apparently fractured community, a lament at the unfortunateness of the current circumstances, and a well-wishing to all of us/all of those whose paths will no longer coincide.

Is anything settled? Who is leaving? Do you know where youre going? Who remains?

For those who would care to answer, i invite you to do so here or via PM, if public discussion seems improper or ill-advised. Finally, if this post is premature and unhlepful then please feel free to tell me so and to lock or delete as you see fit.

Thanks to each of you for your incredible influence on me,
May the Force be with us all

People are complicated.
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20 Aug 2017 17:12 #298786 by
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I can't speak for everyone, but since my teaching master has already shared her departure, I think it's okay to express that I share in your sentiment and how sad I am as to the events of late. I too will be making a departure, not really thinking it fair to my tm to keep her here just for me. She will be missed. I loved the temple too watching people progress and change over the past couple of years. I hope things work out for the best and that everyone finds what they're looking for. Thank you for the thread and the inquiry. This while thing makes me really sad...

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20 Aug 2017 17:20 - 20 Aug 2017 17:25 #298787 by Zenchi
A lot of us are helping Wes start his new site, it's not specific just to Jedi. Links in the sig below, Monastic Order of Knights...

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20 Aug 2017 17:31 #298788 by
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Quietly here for now. Waiting to see how things settle.

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20 Aug 2017 17:31 #298789 by
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Mmm Indeed. This is a prime example of a lack in transparency. All of us non Knights are peacing together a very incomplete puzzle and has no idea what is really going on. Oh sure. There is plenty of he said she said going around....but that's not enough for us
"Lower Class men" to make sound decisions on.

I sure would like to know exactly what went on behind the Knights doors and judge for myself how things played out...post for post.

Until such time. I can't make a clear judgment on what I myself will do beyond what I am already doing.

People know how to find me. And as always...Im here to help however I can.

Thats all I can do for now.

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20 Aug 2017 17:39 #298790 by
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many of the knights are working with others in leadership to resolve some issues. many of us are still here. if i can be off service to anyone please PM me. It has been a bit tense but we are working on fixing it.

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20 Aug 2017 17:57 #298791 by Avalon
I'm sitting and I'm waiting.

In the mean time.... read my sig.

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20 Aug 2017 18:07 #298792 by Amaya
Not everyone will leave unless the site itself is closed and even then you may meet them at other sites :)

I wondered myself reading journals who was going but in the end I guess its like anything, people come and go all the time, some return, some dont.
It might sound like I dont care but who is or isnt here doesnt affect my life and its in my actions I show who I am.
This here is where I truly began to see things differently and will always have a place in my soul. But, jediism is more than just here. No matter how much I respect and love this place.

Everything is belief
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20 Aug 2017 18:13 #298793 by Manu
I'm still here.

I understand there are a lot of issues, but I have found that the best thing you can do in a relationship is talk things out. People are imperfect, we all make mistakes, but as long as there is a willingness to make things right, and an overall sense of empathy for one another, we can work things out.

I'm here. If you, yes you reading this, ever feel the need to talk to someone, my PM is available.

The pessimist complains about the wind;
The optimist expects it to change;
The realist adjusts the sails.
- William Arthur Ward
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20 Aug 2017 18:20 #298795 by
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I'm pleased to say we are in good talks currently and with spirits of compromise and camaraderie. We will have more soon.

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20 Aug 2017 19:21 #298799 by
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Staying, I've been here since 2008 and events like this occasionally happen in online communities. I'm here for personal growth and community, until that ends I will happily stay.

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20 Aug 2017 19:25 - 20 Aug 2017 19:26 #298800 by Brick
I'll go wherever there are good lessons and good friends. At present that is here. Who knows what the future holds though?

We each have our own path to walk, these sites are just stopping points to rest our heads and meet other travellers. Sooner or later, we all have to get back on the road, and head out in search of new adventures

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20 Aug 2017 19:28 #298801 by
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I'll still be kicking around here... but for the foreseeable future gonna be taking a step back. The issues that have been so divisive have been... distracting from my training and unbecoming of Jedi.

I'll still be answering PM's if anyone needs me, but prolly gonna be a a lot less active in the forums. I've allowed the "drama" of this place to distract me from my Path. I need to get back to my growth.

But fear not, I'm not leaving this place. It's given me too much for me to abandon it.

Remember, this is a site. The Path happens beyond.

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20 Aug 2017 19:59 #298803 by JamesSand
As far as it goes, I'll still be pottering around, fiddling with the IP and general what-not.



That said, I am not above drama, and I am loyal to whoever brings me the best entertainment :laugh:
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20 Aug 2017 20:13 #298806 by Gisteron
OB1. The amount of layers of value this message has is difficult to count. I'm sure I'm not alone in confirming that in many a way you expressed what many of us were thinking: The true meaning of this place as a platform, a breeding ground for relationships, mostly, and at times ideas, too. I predict that in five years time we will remember these days and this thread that came out of all that, as yet another milestone of TOTJO history, another waypoint of the TOTJO path.
For all the heat so readily to spark between the two of us aside, my hats off for thee tonight, and perhaps a polite bow, too. Thank you.

Better to leave questions unanswered than answers unquestioned
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20 Aug 2017 20:29 - 20 Aug 2017 20:59 #298807 by OB1Shinobi
Jeez, Gist, usually when you make people cry its because youve forever demolished the irrational assumptions upon which their entire worldview was predicated. But here i am, chopping onions with my worldview still intact.
All i can say is thanks, i appreciate you saying that for real B)

People are complicated.
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20 Aug 2017 21:24 #298822 by Kobos
I will be here unless I told to leave.......lol I got some people to annoy, things to learn and love to spread and though I'm sure events like this happen, I know I saw a little different view of how I need to be acting. I know some people deeper than I knew them and made connections I otherwise haven't. I'll be here, if I end up being a dick at some point I'll accept whats coming to me.

What has to come ? Will my heart grow numb ?
How will I save the world ? By using my mind like a gun
Seems a better weapon, 'cause everybody got heat
I know I carry mine, since the last time I got beat
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20 Aug 2017 21:28 #298823 by
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I fully retract my previous statement.

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20 Aug 2017 21:50 #298828 by
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unfortunately discussions have stalled and progress has been made and John has decided to behave in a way benefiting of a master of this order

i guess time to decide what is next.

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20 Aug 2017 22:00 - 20 Aug 2017 22:02 #298829 by Kobos
Thanks for keeping us updated Firewolf!



We need a hero (see attached) to save us ;)

What has to come ? Will my heart grow numb ?
How will I save the world ? By using my mind like a gun
Seems a better weapon, 'cause everybody got heat
I know I carry mine, since the last time I got beat
MF DOOM Books of War

Training Masters: Carlos.Martinez3 and JLSpinner
TB:Nakis
Knight of the Conclave
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