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Last names post marriage
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So the boys have something unique from the father, while both son and daughter will have unique mitochondrial DNA from the mother. This way the paternal name line can be preserved in boys while the maternal name line is preserver through girls, with both being legitimate pathways to determine genetic lineage (to some extent).
Perhaps in that model a new shared middle name would become the given 'family' name to represent the parent-child group.
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I was not particularly fond of my last name because of the "lack of history" it had. Long-complicated story, basically ending with "my grandfather didn't even know know if Benton was his last name" type of story, otherwise I might have considered becoming "Benton-Thompson" or "Thompson-Benton"...come to think of it, those both sound a bit too strange, I've already got an odd first name, lol
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Long story short, there shoudn't be a default, and none of this is complex or difficult. You have a right to keep or change your name according to *your* whims and desires. The only time I feel this is uncomfortable is when people just default to tradition without thinking through other possibilities with their partner.
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Jamie Stick wrote: I don't know if I'll ever get married, I've kind of got a lot of political reasons for not getting married... However...
If I were to get married, I wouldn't change my name. My understanding is that among European Western cultures, the tradition of changing the last name was the final step in transferring property. What property? The wife, of course. Women were considered property and changing last names was an ancient equivalent to changing the title on a car.
You know and understand nothing of western european cultures.
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