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22 Aug 2019 03:35 #341673 by Arinme

Phoenix Vidensia wrote:

Arinme wrote: Yeah, don't bait me. I was thinking you were a narcissist, yes. I didn't say it though and that's a very important distinction--nor did I imply you were crazy, which would be a subtle form of gas-lighting.


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Arinme wrote:
Ever heard of narcissism? You're being one.


and...

Arinme wrote: GO TO A THERAPIST.

Arinme wrote: Over-identification with your false self is what I was thinking. I was trying to figure out how to bring this to your attention as gently as possible but, well, you decided to bait me.

Anyway, isn't being a Sith about self-awareness and all that? You know, real left-hand path stuff like the removal of self-deception?

It's not your house. Stop trying to destroy people.


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I will not engage in your politics. Did you think a Grey would?

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22 Aug 2019 03:36 #341674 by Arinme

Deimos wrote: Wow there is a lot to unpack here. There is one genuine question I have for Arinme. Why did you take the bait? Cuz here's my thoughts: based on your posts, you knew this wasn't the best place to go given your abuse, I'm assuming recently so feel free to correct me, but you took it anyway. So why are you blaming Phoenix for gas lighting? I'm not saying I condone her attitude in any way, but accusing her of gas lighting when you willingly came into HER thread, and then calling for arrests to be made seems a bit unjustified given that this is the Internet and no one forced you to reply to in the first place.

I'm not trying to piss anyone off, rather I'm trying to understand the logic. Because it does seem a bit overzealous to call for an arrest on a web forum.


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22 Aug 2019 03:44 #341676 by Phoenix Vidensia

Arinme wrote:

Phoenix Vidensia wrote:

Arinme wrote: Yeah, don't bait me. I was thinking you were a narcissist, yes. I didn't say it though and that's a very important distinction--nor did I imply you were crazy, which would be a subtle form of gas-lighting.


Like...

Arinme wrote:
Ever heard of narcissism? You're being one.


and...

Arinme wrote: GO TO A THERAPIST.

Arinme wrote: Over-identification with your false self is what I was thinking. I was trying to figure out how to bring this to your attention as gently as possible but, well, you decided to bait me.

Anyway, isn't being a Sith about self-awareness and all that? You know, real left-hand path stuff like the removal of self-deception?

It's not your house. Stop trying to destroy people.


Another person who claims to know what being a Sith is about... Please, share all the details. What is Sith to you?


I will not engage in your politics. Did you think a Grey would?


I showed you where you did the two things you said you did not... and you have nothing to say but that? Amusing and pathetic.

... Meh ...

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22 Aug 2019 03:50 #341677 by Deimos
Thank you for the clarification, and is that from dragonheart? That's what came up when I googled the first line. Although personally I do still think it is a little hypocritical to willingly come into a forum, accuse someone of harming in some form, but then call for arrests for simply voicing their opinion, which could be seen as harming to others. I'm not saying your ideals are hypocritical, just the authoritarianistic way you seem to be going about adhering to said ideals.

-Dei'mos
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22 Aug 2019 03:59 #341679 by Phoenix Vidensia

Deimos wrote: Thank you for the clarification, and is that from dragonheart? That's what came up when I googled the first line. Although personally I do still think it is a little hypocritical to willingly come into a forum, accuse someone of harming in some form, but then call for arrests for simply voicing their opinion, which could be seen as harming to others. I'm not saying your ideals are hypocritical, just the authoritarianistic way you seem to be going about adhering to said ideals.


Allow me...

She's a hypocrite. There... easy.

... Meh ...

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22 Aug 2019 04:26 - 22 Aug 2019 05:11 #341682 by Arinme

Deimos wrote: Thank you for the clarification, and is that from dragonheart? That's what came up when I googled the first line. Although personally I do still think it is a little hypocritical to willingly come into a forum, accuse someone of harming in some form, but then call for arrests for simply voicing their opinion, which could be seen as harming to others. I'm not saying your ideals are hypocritical, just the authoritarianistic way you seem to be going about adhering to said ideals.


It's from the initiate program.
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22 Aug 2019 04:31 #341683 by Deimos
Thanks!

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22 Aug 2019 05:35 #341684 by Brick

Brick wrote: ... before others see this and the thread quickly dissolves into chaos....


Glad to see we all managed to keep our cool whilst I was away

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22 Aug 2019 05:47 - 22 Aug 2019 05:47 #341685 by Arinme

Brick wrote:

Brick wrote: ... before others see this and the thread quickly dissolves into chaos....


Glad to see we all managed to keep our cool whilst I was away


I'm not a mandated reporter, but that is basically what this is.
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22 Aug 2019 05:52 - 22 Aug 2019 06:01 #341687 by Arinme

Phoenix Vidensia wrote:

Arinme wrote:

Phoenix Vidensia wrote:

Arinme wrote: Yeah, don't bait me. I was thinking you were a narcissist, yes. I didn't say it though and that's a very important distinction--nor did I imply you were crazy, which would be a subtle form of gas-lighting.


Like...

Arinme wrote:
Ever heard of narcissism? You're being one.


and...

Arinme wrote: GO TO A THERAPIST.

Arinme wrote: Over-identification with your false self is what I was thinking. I was trying to figure out how to bring this to your attention as gently as possible but, well, you decided to bait me.

Anyway, isn't being a Sith about self-awareness and all that? You know, real left-hand path stuff like the removal of self-deception?

It's not your house. Stop trying to destroy people.


Another person who claims to know what being a Sith is about... Please, share all the details. What is Sith to you?


I will not engage in your politics. Did you think a Grey would?


I showed you where you did the two things you said you did not... and you have nothing to say but that? Amusing and pathetic.


I'm bound by every oath you could possibly imagine. I just witnessed a crime be committed in an actual church, while everyone else looked the other way and blamed the victim.

I was not going to press charges. I am now reconsidering.

Why is this not being taken seriously?
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